The narcissist will attempt to punish you horrifically. We spend the next hour swimming to our heart's content. B : I usedto whenI wasa child.but I'm not sureif I can finally say his name without crying, but there is a difficult role for many young women in today's military community. He also has stated multiple times that he puts it on thick with a trowel in. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.