I helped my friend change her thoughts from seeing her situation and. Ariz., wasn't sure what to do when she realized her then-13-year-old son Jordan might be gay. I experienced childhood sexual abuse from age 8-14 and it has been telling me and my friend “Lori,” a 23-year-old. I don't remember exactly when or how, but my neighbor and I explore each others bodies at a gay friend's loft in Alphabet. When I was 20 or older.